Confusion, the anxiety we feel when we realize we are not who we thought we were and the need or reluctance to accept this new reality. How do we learn to tolerate confusion? When contact contributes to the loss of homeostasis and makes us jump into the void and let ourselves go, confusion becomes the dust produced by the ruined structures of our ego: the marked (and many times painful) deterioration of our self-image. Only by tolerating and facing it will we be able to get rid of delusions and end up hugging tightly that self we thought we would never find or had lost.